employees are not family

One common metaphor I often hear from owners or leaders when describing their workplace culture is that it's like a family. However, it's crucial to unpack what this analogy truly means when people say, "What is it like to work here?" and the response is, "Well, you know, we're all like family here."

Firstly, let's address why this analogy falls short. Typically, when an owner or leader describes their culture as a family, it often signifies a lack of effort in developing a robust culture. It can be seen as taking the easy way out, hoping that merely stating "we're like family" will suffice without actively cultivating the desired atmosphere. This approach might aim to boost employee retention or aid in recruiting efforts, but it overlooks the fundamental question of what it's genuinely like to work in that environment.

The notion of a workplace culture mirroring a family dynamic doesn't hold true. Unlike family dynamics, you don't hire or fire family members, nor do you subject them to performance reviews. While the intent behind using the family metaphor may be understandable, it's ultimately an inadequate comparison.

On one hand, it can be viewed as a shortcut or a lazy approach to building a positive culture. Conversely, some individuals might be so invested in their culture that they inadvertently misrepresent its nature.

A workplace culture can be dynamic, motivating, and conducive to professional development. It can foster innovation, curiosity, and personal satisfaction in achieving professional goals. However, it's essential to recognize that employees are not family members; they are part of a team within an organization with a defined purpose.

We can’t BS our employees to think they work somewhere they don’t. If we want to create a culture that is exciting, motivating, curious, and satisfying for our teams, then we must put the effort forth.

As leaders, it's our responsibility to treat and lead our teams accordingly—not as family members with eccentric quirks but as capable individuals united by a shared organizational purpose. When discussing workplace culture, it's crucial to emphasize that we are not a family but an accountable group working towards common goals that drive our business forward.

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